When you were a kid, were you ever asked “What do you want to be when you grow up?” I think we all are at some point. Some say they want to be an astronaut, others say a fireman or a veterinarian. But you know what no one ever says… No one ever says they want to be happy.

As kids, we have it made. We get to play with our friends, learn new things, and don’t have to think of what we actually want to do until later on. But as Americans, we’re encouraged and programmed to have an occupation in mind. It’s part of our culture and how we’re taught how we should live. Why? I know it was my upbringing.

That age old question has always bothered me. I honestly think it’s a question that sets us up for failure. Look at the people around you. I bet there are a lot that going about life, but aren’t really happy. I think defining that word is where a lot of problems start from.

Because we grow up too fast, Americans don’t really get a chance to know what happy actually is. We can’t define it and in some cases, don’t have examples of it to observe. What I’ve learned through personal development is that happy is the ultimate goal. For me, it’s about working a job I love, giving back to my community when I can, and leaving a positive footprint on this planet when I go.

Go back to that question. “What do I want to be when I grow up?” I don’t think I’ve actually figured it out yet. But I do know I want to be happy. Whatever you say, go after it! If you’re like me and aren’t sure yet, do some self reflection. And remember, you only have one life to live. So live it to its fullest!